Had enough of spinning your wheels
Have you HAD ENOUGH of spinning your wheels month after month and year after freakin year in your love life?
Are you FED UP with the same old words and promises, yet NEVER ANY ACTION to back it up?
My love, I get you, I understand and have defiantly been there before MANY MORE times than I'm proud of to admit, but hey I'm just being honest because I know you can relate.
So, how do you begin shifting things, begin breaking this cycle and STOP attracting the same of shitty situations and men over and over...
One of the VERY FIRST things that you'll need to do, and will need to do wholeheartedly with true COMMITTED intention and focus, is you must be willing to take full responsibility for your beliefs, behavior, attitude and actions.
I feel you rolling your eyes right now and that's alright, I did the same exact thing when I started learning from my mentors and coaches about how significantly crucial taking PERSONAL responsibility was for my choices, behavior and FUTURE.
I, just like you, didn't have the best of childhood upbringing. Both of my parents struggled with SEVERE alcohol and drug abuse. My dad left when I was three years old, never really came around all that much except for when it was convenient for him or court ordered. My mom was in and out of rehab for several years and also had different boyfriends coming in and out of the house. So, you could say there was a LOT of inconsistency in my life growing up and no real good male or father figure.
Before I continue - I just want you to know I have SO SO MUCH compassion for you my love and your past. I know how lonely and scary it must of been for you growing up not feeling seen, loved, nurtured or safe. And I know how much you're still struggling with your sense of self-worth and lovability. I see you.💛
You want to hear some GOOD HAPPY NEWS now?! Awesome!😉
The GOOD NEWS is you are all grown up and an adult yourself now. YOU get to call the shots moving forward. YOU get to decide who will be in your life and who wont. YOU get to decide to surround yourself with people who know how to love, appreciate and respect you. YOU get to decide the choices you will make for your life, not your mom, dad or anyone else. YOU get to decide how you will care for and love yourself. MOST importantly, you get to decide if you will let your past become your future OR if you will learn how to process it, heal from it and LET IT GO so you can start putting your precious energy and focus on creating the fulfilling life and relationship you DESERVE and are most certainty WORTHY OF!!!
HOW does this option feel and sound to you???
If "OH HELL YEAH, that's exactly what I'm ready to get to work on doing!," then I can absolutely help you! For the past 5 years, I've been teaching my clients in "A Confident Woman Unleashed" my 90 day signature program EXACTLY how to take their Life & Power Back step-by-step one day at a time. If you want to be next, are serious, ready and are COMMITTED to making yourself a top priority over the next 90 days, apply to work with me here http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall. Book in a FREE 30 minute Clarity Call http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall to learn your next steps! Serious inquires only plz.😘
"Before working with Nikki I really struggled with true authentic communication. I did not want to appear to be cold-hearted stating my needs to people, so I accepted a lot of mistreatment by men in my relationships. This led to exhausting myself mentally, emotionally and physically. Nikki helped me to understand that I needed to get crystal clear on what I desired in a relationship, not giving my power away to others and demanding that respect from day one. I am still working on communicating in a loving way, but without compromising my needs. Nikki has helped me to see my self worth and value - which was inside me this whole time. By people pleasing I was only damaging myself and making myself unhappy and unhealthy in the process. Because of Nikki holding me accountable I am working on being less reactive in situations, becoming aware of those red flags and listening to my intuition and taking the time to BREATHE!! Nikki has reaffirmed that it is more than OK to make myself a priority. I value her wisdom and her personal experience and transparency in helping me become the best authentic version of myself. I am so excited to see where I can go with this new mindset ❤️" ~ Jill Taylor
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BIG Hugs
Nikki