Dear future, I am ready...
Are you TIRED of staying quiet and not speaking up when you know it's the best thing for you to do?
Are you SICK of playing small and dimming your voice so that other people will like and approve of you?
Haven't you had ENOUGH of suppressing your true feelings, emotions, wants and needs in life and in relationship?
What's gotta give.....
I know EXACTLY how you feel, I lived the same way for a VERY long time, OVER 10 YEARS to be exact and man did it crush my spirit, confidence, sense of safety and well-being.
I was that PEOPLE PLEASER who wanted everyone to be happy and comfortable even if it was at the expense of my own emotional, physical AND financial well-being. I developed severe lower back pain, chronic fatigue and THOUSANDS of dollars in credit card debt because I wanted my man to stay, have friends to hang out with, and just wanted to FEEL accepted, loved and approved of, no matter the cost!
Living life this way for 10 YEARS is what led me to hitting rock bottom! Rock bottom meaning emotionally abusive relationship after emotionally abusive relationship, almost 20 pounds over weight, having to file for bankruptcy and MASSIVE burnout from my job which led to even more stress and fear about how I was to take care of myself and what my future would end up looking like.
I couldn't take it anymore! I felt I was literally dying a slow death. One of the SCARIEST times of my life. I didn't feel I had any genuine supportive friends to help me through this time, or family for that matter. I felt my family had their own lives going on, and honestly I was too ashamed to reach out to them for help, support and guidance anyway. Plus, the one's closet to me, my immediate family, struggled with alcohol abuse, were very self-centered and have serious narcissistic traits. It wouldn't have been wise to go to them for emotional support again like I did in the past. That only blew up in my face and led me to feeling even more alone and hopeless. I was already feeling REALLY low, so I knew I had to find another support system to overcome the mess I had gotten myself into - and FAST!!
That's when I discovered Life Coaching and my coach, Christine. Working with this women for 12 weeks helped and taught me how to forgive myself, how to heal from my past childhood and relationship trauma, how to create new beliefs about myself and my worth, how to start incorporating new healthy productive habits daily into my life, how to create a positive mindset and to sustain this mindset daily, how to make new like-minded friends, how to accomplish my goals step-by-step, and how to call in HEALTHY love!
Today, I am engaged to the man of my DREAMS, have the most fulfilling friendships I ever could have imagined, I'm in the healthiest and fittest shape of my life! Have recovered from financial ruin, have a beautiful empowering mindset that I nurture and grow daily in a way that's TOTALLY sustainable and FUN! I have to admit, most rewarding of all, I get to teach women all across the world JUST LIKE YOU how to create and build the same for themselves!
For the past 5 years, I've been helping my clients in "A Confident Woman Unleashed" my 90 day signature program take their Life & Power Back, in record time! If you're READY to be next, to heal from your past, create NEW healthy habits, rediscover your TRUE self-worth and self confidence, and to call in the love of your LIFE, I invite you to book in a FREE 30 minute Clarity Call https://bit.ly/ClarityCallwithNikki to learn your next steps! Serious inquires only please! Chat soon love.😘💕